Frequently Asked Questions

I am not comfortable sending a photo of my government issued ID, is there a way around this?

I require all new clients to be screened, no exceptions. This is for me to confirm that you are who you say you are, to ensure that you are someone safe. I take our mutual privacy seriously, and I will never share your information, email or our conversation with anyone else. This requirement is non negotiable. If your privacy is a concern, a Non Disclosure Agreement is also available upon request. Intimacy requires transparency and trust.

Why don’t you offer same day appointments?

I am not an emergency room. You will not die if you don’t receive a same day appointment, I promise you. I do not offer same-day appointments, ever. This allows me to maintain a balanced and fulfilling personal life, ensuring that I can be fully present, rested and focused during our scheduled time together. I kindly ask for your understanding and encourage you to plan ahead by scheduling in advance like a normal person.

Do you offer Outcall Services?

At this time, I choose not to offer outcall sessions. The carefully curated ambiance and energy of my Temple space plays a crucial role in enhancing the overall experience for my clients. The thoughtfully selected fragrances and the tranquil atmosphere contribute to a serene and therapeutic environment, ensuring that clients receive the highest level of relaxation and rejuvenation during their session. By maintaining control over the space, I can guarantee a consistently premium and immersive experience that may be compromised in unfamiliar or external settings. Basically, the vibes in my place are immaculate. :)

Why don’t you offer one hour sessions for first time clients?

I refrain from providing hour-long appointments for first timers as I believe it does not afford ample time for us to genuinely connect, get to know each other and revel in intimacy practices. It is impossible and for you to completely relax, unwind and be fully present during the experience in one hour. My service is very intentional and un-rushed. If you're looking to walk into an appointment, get naked and just hop on my table without so much as a conversation, you came to the wrong party. I require connection and safety with (and for) all my clients before we engage in touch. I need you to feel safe with me too.

1 hour long appointments are available to existing, regular clients only at $500/hr.

Why do I have to send a deposit to book a reservation?

To ensure that I can provide you with the best service and reserve the time specifically for you, I kindly request a small deposit. This not only secures your reservation but also reflects a commitment from you to our scheduled appointment. A deposit is required to book a reservation and you will not receive an appointment without it. According to my research, those who send a deposit in good faith rarely ever cancel.

Does the session include a Sacred Spot massage?

A general session does not include a Sacred Spot (prostate) massage, but if you express an interest, I offer it as an add on* service for an additional $150. If you would like to add this service I will need it communicated to me before our appointment begins.

What do you mean when you say “surrender to the Feminine”?

We live in a society where men are always expected to perform. It’s like a compulsion, most don’t know when to shut it off or even if they can. When I ask you to surrender in my Temple, it means letting go of the need for control or dominance. I want you to allow yourself to be vulnerable and trust the unfolding of the experience. Allow, be adaptable, and go with the flow rather than resisting. Think of it as a challenge to traditional gender roles. Why do men have such a hard time just receiving? When was the last time you were worshipped and served, without the need for reciprocation? All I ask, is for you to be present, allow yourself to relax and to receive. This practice encourages a more inclusive and fluid understanding of masculine and feminine energy, of which you men are both.

What can I expect during a 90 minute versus a 2 hour session?

All sessions involve us getting comfortable and having a discussion about our needs and intentions. If it is our first time meeting I will also share my personal backstory and how the session will be conducted, we will discuss desires, consent and boundaries. I feel it is important for us to build connection and safety, after all we will be engaging in intimacy practices.

A 90 minute session will include 2 intimacy practices, breath work, bodywork, lingham massage, integration with scalp and facial massage.

A 2hr session is for those who want to foster a deeper connection before we engage in touch. It will include 2 intimacy practices, conscious deep conversation game, mutual touch exploration game, breath work, bodywork, hand/foot massage, lingham massage, integration with scalp and facial massage.

(please note that all sessions may last 10-15 minutes longer than you have booked, as I prefer an un-rushed service and I like to take my time. If you are in a strict time crunch, please let me know before our session begins. I hate nothing more than being rushed by a client to has to run back to work or home because they didn’t manage their time effectively).

What do you mean by the term ‘intimacy practice’ ?

In the context of Tantra, intimacy practices are techniques and rituals designed to deepen emotional, physical, and spiritual connections between partners. Tantra, which has its roots in ancient Indian spiritual traditions, views intimacy not just as a physical act but as a holistic experience that encompasses the mind, body, and spirit. Some key examples of intimacy practices may include presence and awareness, breath work, meditation, eye gazing, sensual touch, extended foreplay, energy exchange, exploration of boundaries and creating a safe space. If deepening your connection with another human is not your jam, then this service is probably not for you.

I am still confused and I would like to chat before I decide to book a session, can we do that?

I do not offer discovery calls.  In my experience these calls often attract inquiries that do not lead to serious bookings. I am not here to convince you or to sell you. I prefer to cater to men who move with intention. I have designed my website to be very informative. It contains detailed information about my services, processes, and testimonials from previous clients. If after reviewing the information on my website you feel that my services align with your needs, I would be happy to move forward with the next step, which is to book an in person session. If after reviewing my website and you are still confused or uncertain, please follow your gut. My service is for those who are ready to jump with both feet in.

Do you see women or couples?

At this time, my service is for men only.